discreet

adjective

dis·​creet di-ˈskrēt 

1

: having or showing discernment or good judgment in conduct and especially in speech : prudent

especially : capable of preserving prudent silence

2

: unpretentious, modest

the warmth and discreet elegance of a civilized home

—Joseph Wechsberg

3

: unobtrusive, unnoticeable

followed at a discreet distance

discreetly adverb

discreetness noun

Synonyms

• intelligent
• judgmatic
• judgmatical
• judicious
• prudent

Examples of discreet in a Sentence

For a couple who wanted a discreet bar between the study and the living room, Quogue, New York, architect Stuart Disston designed a small-scale bar that's hidden behind … doors under the stairs and takes advantage of plumbing in an adjacent powder room. —Sallie Brady, This Old House, January/February 2006

Without the knowledge of the exiled African National Congress leadership, he entered into a discreet dialogue with the South African government—which was reaching a similar conclusion. He later succeeded in convincing suspicious comrades of the need for a negotiated solution. —F. W. De Klerk, Time, 18 Apr. 2005

The New York Stock Exchange, meanwhile, has proposed a rule that would bar a stock-market analyst from talking to newspapers that fail to disclose the analyst's conflicts of interest. Even the C.E.O. of Goldman Sachs, one of Wall Street's most discreet firms, has chimed in … and has extorted his peers to restore "trust in our system." —New Yorker, 9 Dec. 2002

Discreet disclaimers by the tourist board to the effect that "there is no evidence whatever that Prince Vlad Tepes (TSEH-pesh), or Vlad the Impaler, inhabited the castle" do nothing to discourage its notoriety as Dracula's reputed residence. Mythically, at least, this is in fact where he lived—and always will. —Erik Sandberg-Diment, New York Times, 21 June 1998

he was very discreet, only saying what was necessary

with a discreet gesture, she signalled to her husband that she was ready to leave the party

Recent Examples on the Web

Southern haberdasher Sid Mashburn sees his similarity discreet iteration as a way to inject a bit more personality into the penguin look. —Eric Twardzik, Robb Report, 30 Oct. 2024

As the months of the year go by, nail trends move toward more sober tones and discreet designs. —María Munsuri, Vogue, 29 Oct. 2024

At the time, Wang was a 24-year-old English teacher at No. 8 Middle School and, despite the risks posed by her father's high rank within the Communist Party, the couple began a discreet relationship. —Nina Turner, Newsweek, 29 Oct. 2024

This space will be off-limits to humans once the crossing is completed, with locked gates to keep people out and discreet fencing to guide wildlife away from nearby homes into the wild hills beyond. —Jeanette Marantos, Los Angeles Times, 29 Oct. 2024

Word History

Etymology

Middle English discrete, discret, discreet "morally discerning, prudent, separate, distinct," borrowed from Anglo-French & Medieval Latin; Anglo-French discret, borrowed from Medieval Latin discrētus "separate, distinct, showing discernment, prudent," going back to Latin, "separated, differentiated," from past participle of discernere "to separate, distinguish" — more at discern

Note: See note at discrete.

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

Kids Definition

discreet

adjective

dis·​creet dis-ˈkrēt 

: having or showing good judgment especially in conduct or speech

discreetly adverb

discreetness noun