genteel

adjective

gen·​teel jen-ˈtēl 

1

a

: having an aristocratic quality or flavor : stylish

b

: of or relating to the gentry or upper class

a person of genteel upbringing

c

: elegant or graceful in manner, appearance, or shape

the genteel manners of an old southern gentleman

d

: free from vulgarity or rudeness : polite

2

a

: maintaining or striving to maintain the appearance of superior or middle-class social status or respectability

a shabby genteel mansion

b(1)

: marked by false delicacy, prudery, or affectation

was genteel on the surface, but had a hard heart

(2)

: conventionally or insipidly pretty

timid and genteel artistic style

genteelly

jen-ˈtē(l)-lē 

adverb

genteelness noun

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The word genteel has some familiar English relatives, including gentle, gentrify, and gentility. All come from the Latin noun gens, used to refer to a group of related people. That word's plural, gentes, was used in Roman times to classify the people of the world, particularly non-Romans. Similarly, the English gentile refers to people who are not Jewish, or who don’t follow other specific religions. Many non-English words come from gens as well, including the Spanish gente, meaning “people.” To say gens has made its mark would be putting it gently.

Synonyms

• befitting
• correct
• de rigueur
• decent
• decorous
• nice
• polite
• proper
• respectable
• seemly

Examples of genteel in a Sentence

a person of genteel upbringing

She was born into a genteel family.

an elderly woman living in genteel poverty

speaking in a genteel accent

They lived in a more genteel era.

the genteel manners of an old southern gentleman

Recent Examples on the Web

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Word History

Etymology

borrowed from French gentil literally, "of aristocratic birth," going back to Old French — more at gentle entry 1

First Known Use

1601, in the meaning defined at sense 1a

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Kids Definition

genteel

adjective

gen·​teel jen-ˈtē(ə)l 

1

: of or relating to the upper classes

2

: elegant sense 1, graceful

3

: free from bad manners or bad taste

genteelly

-ˈtē(ə)l-lē 

adverb

genteelness noun