self-effacing

adjective

self-ef·​fac·​ing ˌself-i-ˈfā-siŋ How to pronounce self-effacing (audio)
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: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous
His passions and faith run soul-deep, his gentle wit is always self-effacing and never insulting …Don Gaetz
… she was an extremely self-effacing, private person who never sought the limelight and did not leave the usual artifacts that enable a biographer to reconstruct life patterns.Douglas R. McManis

Examples of self-effacing in a Sentence

he's dating a sweet, self-effacing girl
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Although self-effacing and unfashionable, Hackman held special status within Hollywood — heir to Spencer Tracy as an everyman, actor’s actor, curmudgeon and reluctant celebrity. Hillel Italie, Chicago Tribune, 27 Feb. 2025 Friends and former colleagues say that General Caine, an intensely focused but low-key, self-effacing officer, has been uncomfortable with Mr. Trump’s characterization of his role in defeating the Islamic State. Eric Schmitt, New York Times, 23 Feb. 2025 Bearing a flawlessly polite and self-effacing demeanor, Mr. Blinken spent countless hours trying to resolve and prevent conflict. Edward Wong, New York Times, 18 Jan. 2025 But behind the self-effacing demeanor, allies of Ms. Wiles said, is a woman who can wield a scalpel. Elisabeth Bumiller, New York Times, 9 Jan. 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-effacing

Word History

First Known Use

1854, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-effacing was in 1854

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“Self-effacing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-effacing. Accessed 6 Mar. 2025.

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