: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

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The Slavophiles’ distinction was their tone of self-pity. James Verini, The New Yorker, 1 Mar. 2025 The absence of family affects them differently: Maya initially comes across as self-pitying and needy, envious of Natasha’s talents. April Austin, The Christian Science Monitor, 27 Feb. 2025 Unlike covert narcissists, who mask their behavior with self-pity, grandiose narcissists rely on charm and manipulation to thrive. Julianna Bragg, CNN, 20 Feb. 2025 My biggest worry initially was that the character would succumb to self-pity or be a sadsack, but the director Noah (Pritzker) wouldn’t let my character drift into such a place. Stuart Miller, Orange County Register, 18 Feb. 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-pity

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 6 Mar. 2025.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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