commiserate (with) 1 of 2

commiseration

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noun

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Synonym Chooser

How does the noun commiseration contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of commiseration are compassion, condolence, pity, and sympathy. While all these words mean "the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another," commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort.

murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters

In what contexts can compassion take the place of commiseration?

The words compassion and commiseration can be used in similar contexts, but compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare.

treats the homeless with great compassion

When is condolence a more appropriate choice than commiseration?

While the synonyms condolence and commiseration are close in meaning, condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss.

expressed their condolences to the widow

When is it sensible to use pity instead of commiseration?

While in some cases nearly identical to commiseration, pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress.

felt pity for the captives

When could sympathy be used to replace commiseration?

The words sympathy and commiseration are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort.

went to my best friend for sympathy
in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Examples Sentences

Recent Examples of Synonyms for commiserate (with)
Verb
  • Jesse Eisenberg — who wrote, directed, and stars opposite Culkin — is the ostensible protagonist David, Benji’s uptight, socially awkward cousin who envies and pities him in equal measure, but A Real Pain is Culkin’s showcase.
    Rachel Handler, Vulture, 22 Oct. 2024
  • Now the wife, who is 70 and a devotee of spas and facial rejuvenation, pities her fat husband.
    Mary Ann Grossmann, Twin Cities, 10 Nov. 2024
Noun
  • The wave of sympathy toward Mangione and hostility toward CEOs sparked debate about how a set of Americans had come to cheer, or at least condone, wishes of violence hurled toward corporate executives.
    Max Zahn, ABC News, 12 Dec. 2024
  • Online sellers, looking to cash in on the sympathies that some have expressed for Mangione, have drawn criticism.
    Christopher Cann, USA TODAY, 11 Dec. 2024
Noun
  • There’s no substitute for hard work, resilience, kindness, standing up for and with folks in their weaker moments and knowing when to take it on the chin and when to give it.
    Audrey Gibbs, The Tennessean, 20 Dec. 2024
  • Additionally, staying connected with those who refuse to change (perhaps out of trauma bonding, fear or even just kindness) can keep you stuck in the cycle of dysfunction.
    Mark Travers, Forbes, 19 Dec. 2024
Noun
  • As practitioners of empathy and compassion, associates are unbridled to become magnets for bringing out the best in others around them.
    Chip Bell, Forbes, 14 Dec. 2024
  • Our brothers and sisters in crisis deserve our compassion and understanding, not violence.
    Cheyanne M. Daniels, The Hill, 9 Dec. 2024
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“Commiserate (with).” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/commiserate%20%28with%29. Accessed 25 Dec. 2024.

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